From the journal

I'm not a psychotherapist and certainly not a panacea for relationship problems

Let's be honest, in most cases, inviting a third person into your sex life is an attempt to fill in the holes in the relationship. As a rule, one of the partners agrees to this very reluctantly (and yes, more often than not, these are women). Can you imagine the partner's mood? Now add my status as an escort with a kink and you'll get a recipe for a not-very-pleasant evening for all three of us Therefore, I recommend - I do not insist, but I sincerely recommend - to contact a specialist in the field, and not use other people as a buffer or a tool for fixing relationships.

Jealousy, rivalry, aggression... underline as appropriate

It doesn't matter at all who you are to each other: friends, lovers, spouses, etc. You can have open and free relationships, you can often practice threesomes, you can have more than one successful experience with others - none of this matters, because the vast majority of women perceive me as a competitor. Which in turn results in hidden or obvious aggression and competition. And therefore, a completely ruined evening.

Everything is multiplied by two

No matter how you look at it, there are still two partners. This means that I also need to devote twice as much energy, effort, and attention, and most often in the same amount of time as with one partner. The sensations remain blurred and unclear. Why did we meet? What did you want?

And, of course, payment for such a service. Yes, this is also multiplied by two. Minimum! This is elementary math: the fact that you are a couple does not make you one person, therefore, the payment should be appropriate. I often had to explain such basic things.

I'm not a doll or a robot

It is difficult and uncomfortable for me to be in such an atmosphere of constant tension, rivalry, and potential aggression. And what kind of good mood and arousal can we talk about in such conditions?